OK, is it just me or does the stereogram render backwards: The more distant stuff (the skyline) looks closer, while the floor and walls looks more distant? I cross my eyes to see these because I can’t do the “focus on the horizon” trick.
Perhaps have a mode where the close/far stuff is swapped so it looks right to those of us who cross our eyes to see these.
Your eyes shouldn't be diverging, just not converging (it's often called "parallel" viewing). It is more difficult to learn, and the offset between the images is more sensitive (since, as you say, actually diverging your eyes is near impossible).
However, when you've mastered it, and when the offset (i.e. size) is correct, it's much easier to snap into than the cross-eyed viewing, and much easier to stay in focus while looking at different parts of the image.
I agree, and diverging gets practically impossible if the image is farther away, like on a TV screen. There is no natural scenario when one's eyes would diverge, which is what would usually be necessary in such cases.
>There is no natural scenario when one's eyes would diverge
I like to look out a window at something distant, like a tree or car outside, then adjust my focus on the window pane itself (perhaps the little flecks of dust on it, or better yet one dot of paint on it).
That is a very natural scenario, and at least for me. super easy. I've done it for decades though, so maybe it's just natural for me, lol.
I can FEEL my eyes slightly squeezing to change shape (and thus change focus), and at this point it's simple muscle control, and it's fun.
This only gets you there if the physical distance between the stereo images on the display is <= the distance between the eyes. If it is greater, you would need to look at something more than infinitely away / behind you (your eyes would have to diverge). In particular if the screen is already quite far away (e.g. a few meters), there's not much more far away you can focus anyway, since there's not much difference in angle between a few meters and infinity.
I have to admit I don't understand your argument, but in my experience:
Stereograms are NOT meant to be enjoyed from across a room.
It's REALLY hard to 'catch' a stereogram from far away, so why are you even trying?
However, the "focusing on-or-through a transparent thing" that WhiteSage mentions works well at slightly further distances and can be used to help you figure this stuff out.
They look much better if they are made to “diverge”, instead of cross, the eyes. Much “larger”, “deeper”... I think one way to describe it is that it’s like you are looking out of a window, instead of looking at an object in your hand, if that makes sense.
As for which one is easier: For some reason, I have always been able to do the “uncrossing” on command, and it feels more natural and more relaxed to me. I sometimes do it to compare almost identical things that are next to each other. Crossing my eyes feels straining.
If I cross my eyes I see it the way you describe. If I relax my eyes it goes the other way I see it correctly. It took me a while to figure out how to do this as a kid. Almost like putting my eyes into a far off daydream state.
Perhaps have a mode where the close/far stuff is swapped so it looks right to those of us who cross our eyes to see these.