Honey pot (and honey trap) have been used in espionage, and related fiction, where a target is seduced sexually. The infosec version of this is essentially the same approach though.

Also it's been used to describe vaginas and male sex toys.

noun: honey-pot

1.

  - a container for honey. "an earthenware honeypot"
  - an enticing source of pleasure or reward. "massive increases in government -- purchases became a honeypot for the unscrupulous"
  - a place to which many people are attracted. "the tourist honeypot of St Ives"

2. VULGAR SLANG

  - a woman's genitals

I guess the definition we are used to is the metaphor "an enticing source of pleasure or reward."

But with the added nuance that you're intention is to trap the enticed in honey...