The complaint is that the tech mega-corps are too big and should be broken up. Then they wouldn't distort markets (among other things) by dumping free products subsidized through ads on them, only to forget about said products two years later.
Regarding your specific interpretation:
1. The product was developed for internal use AFAIK, then released externally.
2. Google is getting something out of this: a PR boost, better engineer retention and the engineers feel good about themselves.
3. All these projects not only don't become standards, but they just add to the pile of things one has to learn because there are still too many people that are fawning over anything published by FAANG.
AFAICT Android is a pain to upgrade because of custom closed-source drivers and lack of ABI stability in Linux, so you need to recompile a driver for a newer kernel.
Android is not a Google's internal product, unlike Bazel.
Right. Like the v8 javascript engine. If you want to build it, you need to download gigabytes of sources and install Googles internal build system tools first...
They even maintain internal tools that are similar versions, but better. Google uses Borg internally, but they open sourced the cheap knock-off known as Kubernetes instead.
The part where this starts to suck is when their tools become pseudo-standards and everyone has to live with their decisions.