Flutter doesn't use native controls/frameworks under the hood, so it generally falls into the category of "trying to shoehorn in a single look and feel everywhere".
Not necessarily bad either - some companies may want distinct experience in their app across all platforms l. Any UI is fine as long as it is fast and efficient.
Yes, precisely. It has a "Cupertino" theme that kind of mimics the iOS look and feel, but it misses the mark and will always be behind the curve a least a release or two in matching the OS.