I had similar problem early in my career. I improved myself by applying the mix of three:
1. If the change requested was not major I was making mental push to agree and just do it, in many cases comments were not about the very substance of what I was working on but they were sliding on the surface
2. I was learning to read my work and see if reviewer is actually right, as I'm not a genius and there are times I get something wrong
3. I was learning 'the art of not giving a f*ck', well, sometimes this is what you need to do to keep sane :)
1. If the change requested was not major I was making mental push to agree and just do it, in many cases comments were not about the very substance of what I was working on but they were sliding on the surface
2. I was learning to read my work and see if reviewer is actually right, as I'm not a genius and there are times I get something wrong
3. I was learning 'the art of not giving a f*ck', well, sometimes this is what you need to do to keep sane :)