Asking for what they owe you is fine, even asking for more is acceptable. It is the threat of an unrelated negative that is blackmail. And that the quickest way to make people unhelpful and if you leave a trace of it, its going to ruin your chances in court.
So no upside just downsides, so don't do that part of "else I am telling the world".
So no upside just downsides, so don't do that part of "else I am telling the world".